You mean your wife doesn't share your interest in Victorian-themed steampunk colony building computer games? You're not the only one my friend. I've tried to explain why it's so compelling to me, but there's no hope.
I was spending more time in the family room away from my computer when I could not play the update. She is not much of a fan of computer games in general, particularly when I disappear into my office until late into the night. Repeatedly.